You know that saying about how a friend will bail you out of jail at 2am while a true friend will be sitting next to you in the cell saying: damn, that was fun.

I think it’s a wise aphorism but I guess I reckon friendship differently than most people.

To me a friend is someone who would ask to tie me up in this fashion and I would without a second thought consent

A true friend would just tie me up and proceed to push me outside my comfort zone and so thorough transgress the bullshit notion of boundaries that I would only be able to whisper Meister Eckhart’s prayer: thank you, thank you, thank you.